Bengali wedding (বাঙালি বিয়ে)



Bengali wedding (বাঙালি বিয়ে)
(Bengali: বিয়ে, বিবাহ) contains many customs and events that can period several times. Although Islamic and Hindu wedding ceremony have their unique spiritual customs, there are many common Arabic customs in wedding ceremony across both Western Bengal and Bangladesh.

Arranging the wedding
A conventional wedding is organized by Ghotoks (matchmakers), who are usually buddies or family members of the several. The matchmakers assist in the release, and also help acknowledge the quantity of any agreement. In Islamic wedding ceremony another agreement to create which is known as 'Mahr' or 'Kabin' to be compensated by the bridegroom to the woman - which is a spiritual need.

Bengali wedding ceremony are generally in four parts: the bride's gaye holud, the groom's gaye holud, the big occurrence, and the celebration. These often take position on individual times. The first occurrence in a wedding is an casual one: the bridegroom provides the woman with a band labels the "engagement" (বাগদান) which is becoming more popular. This can sometimes be regarded as Ashirwaad in Hindu.

A Arabic Hindu Marriage can be separated into the following parts:

Pre-wedding Rituals: Adan Pradan, Patri Patra, Ashirvad, Aai Budo Bhaat, Vridhi, Dodhi Mangal, Holud Kota, Adhibas Tatva, Kubi Patta, Snan, Saankha Porano
Wedding Rituals: Bor Boron, Potto Bastra, Saat Paak, Mala Badal, Subho Drishti, Sampradan, Yagna, Saat Pak (couple), Anjali, Sindur Daan and Ghomta
Post-Wedding Rituals: Bashar Ghar, Bashi Biye, Bidaye, Bou Boron, Kaal Ratri, Bou Bhaat, Phool Sajja, Dwira Gaman

Turmeric wedding (Gaye Holud)
The turmeric root extract extract events or gaye holud (Bengali: গায়ে হলুদ gaee holud, lit. "yellowing the body") take position before the big occurrence. There is one turmeric root extract extract wedding for the woman and one for the bridegroom. For the bride's gaye holud, the groom's household - except the bridegroom himself - go in procession to the bride's house. They bring with them the bride's wedding clothing, wedding design such as turmeric root extract extract insert and henna, sweetmeats and presents. They also take two large seafood designed as a bridegroom and woman. There are local versions on this customized, such as the number of seafood, the celebration accountable for food preparation the seafood and time the seafood is taken to the groom's household.

The procession generally facilities on the (younger) women comparative and buddies of woman, and they are generally all in related outfits, mostly red in color. The woman is placed on a dais, and the henna is used to enhance the bride's hands and toes with intricate summary styles. The turmeric root extract extract insert is used by the bride's buddies to her system. This is said to ease the skin, but also colors her with the unique yellow-colored hue that gives its name to this wedding. The candies are then fed to the woman by all engaged, item by item. There is, of course, a food for the visitors. The groom's gaye holud comes next, and has the same form as the wedding wedding.

Wedding ceremony
The big occurrence (Bengali: বিবাহ or বিয়ে bibaho/bie) follows the gaye holud events. As the big occurrence is organized by the bride's household, much of the customs focus on unpleasant the bridegroom. The bridegroom, along with his household, generally appear later than the bride's part. As they appear, the youthful associates of the bride's household barricade the access to the location, strenuous cash from the bridegroom in come back for enabling him to get into. There is a negotiating between bridegroom and the bride's close family members on the cash of the access. There is generally much good-natured forcing and forcing engaged. Another customized is for the bride's youthful friends, buddies, and family members to hide the groom's footwear for money; to get them back the bridegroom must usually pay off the children. Siblings, buddies and family members also play many realistic humor on the bridegroom.
For a Hindu wedding, a clergyman demands the several to chant mantras from the sacred text messages that formalises the following:

Kanya sampradaan (Bengali: কন্যাসম্প্রদান konnasomprodan lit. "giving the bride"): the ceremonial providing away of the woman by the dad of the bride Saat Paake Ghora Bengali: সাত পাকে ঘোরা (The several walking throughout the ceremonial flame seven times. See Saptapadi, Bengali: সপ্তপদী .)''

For a Islamic wedding, the several are placed independently, and a kazi (person certified by the govt to execute the wedding), associated with the mother and dad and a observe (Bengali: ওয়াকিল wakil) from each part officially demands the woman for her approval to the nation, and then the bridegroom for his.

At now, for Islamic wedding ceremony, the quantity of the dowry or mahr is confirmed, and if all is well, the official documents are finalized, and the several are placed part by part on a dais. The bride's veil (Bengali: ওড়না or ঘোমটা orna/ghomta) is covered over both the several, and a reflection is placed in front of them. The bridegroom is then expected to say something enchanting on what he recognizes in the mirror—notionally once he has set sight on his woman. A conventional response is to say that he has seen the celestial satellite. The several then nourish each other candies, while the bride's close family members try to force the groom's face into the food. All the visitors then enjoy the nation with a food.

In Hindu wedding ceremony on the day of the wedding (after big occurrence is over), close visitors stay alert for the entire night. This is known as the Basor Raat. Usually day on which wedding is organised Basor Raat begins after night time if the big occurrence is over by night. Most Hindu Arabic wedding ceremony happen at night. The next day, usually before mid-day, the several create their way from the location to the groom's house, where a wedding room has been ready.

Reception
The celebration, also known as the Bou Bhaat (Bengali: বউ ভাত lit. "bride feast") or walima (Bengali: ওয়ালিমা) among Muslims, is a celebration given by the groom's household in come back for the big occurrence. It is usually a much more comfortable romance, with only the second-best wedding clothing being used.
Unlike in the big occurrence, the several act as a several at the reception; the several appear together, obtain and see off visitors together, and eat together. After the celebration, the several go to the bride's household house for two night time. On the second day, the bride's household are welcomed to the groom's house for a food, and they keep with the several. This food is known as firani.

Flower bed wedding (Basor Raat)
In the plant bed wedding (Bengali: ফুল শয্যা ful shôjja, lit. "flower bed"), the woman would wear a lot of flowered decorations and their wedding bed is designed with blossoms by the groom's household people. This is the night time consummation. In Islamic wedding ceremony, this occurs on the night time the wedding. In Hindu wedding ceremony, this occurs on the night time the celebration.